Ashley Jamesさんのインスタグラム写真 - (Ashley JamesInstagram)「Our boobs don't define our morals. 💁🏼‍♀️ I was chatting with a friend who was getting ready to go on a date tonight, and she was panicking about what to wear. She's got big boobs like me, and said she didn't want to look 'slutty' but still wanted to feel sexy. Why is it we have to worry about people judging how sexual we are based on our boob size? I have spoke to so many people with big boobs who say they cover up to avoid unwanted stares and comments but then feel unsexy in themselves from feeling like they have to wear unflattering clothing. Who relates to this? I remember being as young as 14 and being asked by teachers to change my clothes as they were 'inappropriate' and would attract unwanted attention - sometimes it was even just a vest top. My friends would wear the same clothes and get away with it. This had such an impact on me as a child, as it taught me to feel ashamed of my body. Like my boobs were the issue and not other people's perceptions and behaviours. I wish boys were taught to respect girls, instead being taught to cover up. I started to cover my body up and I remember then being called 'frumpy' by my boyfriend at the time. I felt like I couldn't win. How many of you relate to getting ready for a night out and feeling really good about yourself, and then one of your girl friends will say something like: "ooo who've you got them out for?", because you're showing the slightest bit of cleavage (sometimes even a vest top!). 💓 It took me years to learn how to love my own body. To wear clothes that flattered me and made me feel good. And to make me realise that if people wanted to judge my sexuality or morals based on my natural body, the issue was theirs and not mine. I can't wait to raise a son who knows all about respect. 🔊 If, like my friend, you're worrying about what outfit to wear this weekend ... Go with the one that makes YOU feel sexy. Our boobs don't define how sexual we are, and how sexual we are does not define our morals. 💁🏼‍♀️💓 #bigboobproblems #selflove #igot99problemsbutmyboobsaintone」10月10日 3時48分