Ashley Jamesのインスタグラム(ashleylouisejames) - 10月8日 03時48分
I wish I knew this when I was in a cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men, so I decided to make a thread. ✌️
This has taken me all day because it's such a complex subject, but hopefully I've narrowed it down well enough.
I used to always think, "I can't be codependent because I'm so independent", and I WAS independent. I still am. But it took me years of making the same mistakes and wondering what was wrong with me before I started to look into my own patterns and behaviours.
I feel like so many codependent traits are so 'normal' we don't even realise them... Especially a women's need to 'fix' someone.
Anyway, I'd LOVE to know your thoughts on this and whether you relate.
And I hope that whether you're in a sh*t cycle of getting hurt or attracting emotionally unavailable people,or whether you're in a long-term relationship that feels very codependent, I hope this helps you reclaim back your power. 👊💓
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