Ashley Jamesさんのインスタグラム写真 - (Ashley JamesInstagram)「I absolutely loved this quote so had to share it on here. I find it so motivating and uplifting, and couldn't agree with it more. ✨🤸🏼‍♀️ Think back to this time last year: how much has changed (both good and bad) since then? Where are you this year - what would would make you happier (be it in work, love, or hobbies)? My year has obviously changed dramatically. Firstly, there's a global pandemic. That's a reminder for all of us that even when we think we have our sh*t together or a plan, life can come and throw curveballs at us - so we have to learn to adapt and still enjoy the journey. I was also happily single, but doing the work on myself to attract the right person, and looking forward to meeting that person (whenever it might have been). There were things I didn't like about myself I knew were holding me back from being the best version of myself: for one my excess drinking, and also holding onto toxic friendships. I could have sworn to you I never wanted to live with a partner and I certainly didn't want children! I was a DJ, a pretty successful one too. I don't think any of us could have seen that industry being wiped out in a year. I was toying with the idea of becoming a coach. I'd gone on such a huge journey of my own from being suicidal in my mid twenties & being totally codependent and pinning my worth on other people valuing me - I knew I was passionate about helping other people. This year: a qualified coach, almost a mum, and living with a partner. 😅 Knowing you deserve more and not being afraid to ask for it are so important. We all have different beliefs about who we are. Some are empowering and move us forward, others are limiting and hold us back. But beliefs are not facts, they are just strongly held opinions. So challenge yourself on any belief that holds you back from achieving what you want (be that a promotion, a career change, to leave a relationship - or to enter a new one with high boundaries and clear self worth). So who would you like to be in 365 days? What changes do you need to make? What fears do you need to overcome? Once you know that, get out and work for it everyday and let's look at where we are next year. ✨💖」11月11日 23時11分