Michelle Lewinのインスタグラム(michelle_lewin) - 12月5日 06時32分

Jealousy, oh jealousy...
Such an energy sucking emotion of mistrust that creates this tunnel vision, and it’s very difficult to get out of it unless your partner helps you out in a very understanding way. Not the angry way, that makes things much worse. We've been there🙋🏼‍♀️ In the beginning of our relationship, I was the jealous one and @jimmy_lewin didn't even know what jealousy was. And in those moments when I entered that bubble, where all logical thinking stop existing... he got annoyed, and thought I was crazy. So somehow, he learned from me what jealousy is. And soon after, HE started getting jealous. For nothing. That's when I understood how annoying a jealous person is. How illogical they argue. So I stopped being jealous, and so did he. We both understood how to handle a jealous partner. Let's just say, life is easier to live where jealousy doesn't exist. I am not saying you should start being ignorant, but maybe less jealous. Every couple have their own rules. If they are not clear, maybe you should sit down and talk if you are on too different levels. Come up together with what is ok and what is not, so it's crystal clear. It can't be misunderstood. If your partner is commenting something not very appropriate on some girls Instagram... it's maybe ok if you haven't talked about it and you feel bad about it, but if you haven't said anything, then you two might have two different points of views. Some things are for one obvious that "that's not ok", but your partner doesn't see it that way, and maybe it's because your partner doesn't know it would hurt you. If you speak clearly with each other, first of all to see if you are both mentally even close to the same level about how a relation works, but then also to avoid jealousy and misunderstandings... Then you can stop worrying so much🤷🏼‍♀️
If you have clearly said you don't think it's ok if he writes "Que mamacita" on random girls pages, and he does it anyway.... then he's just showing he is not the one.
Period.

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