Ashley Jamesのインスタグラム(ashleylouisejames) - 8月2日 23時34分


"But, but, seriously: they're just breasts. Every second person in the world has them. [...]They're odd looking, they're for milk, your mother has them, you've seen a thousand of them... What's all the fuss about?" Julia Roberts in Notting Hill. 👙
I'm really loving the experience of being pregnant, but one thing I'm struggling to get my head around is the ever increasing size of my boobs!
It took me years to love and accept my body after years of being hyper sexualized and judgement starting from as young as 14, when I was a 30GG. It lead to me feeling shame, until I realised that my body was not the issue, the objectification of it was. I get so many messages from fellow big-boobed women who cover up despite it making them feel frumpy because they can't be bothered with the looks and comments (from men and women).
Now that I'm nearing the halfway point of my pregnancy, my boobs have already grown 5 sizes. I feel totally out of proportion, and I'm struggling to keep up with my ever changing bra sizes and finding ways to dress that don't swamp my body. I'm working on finding good lingerie and swimwear to share with you though, so any recommendations let me know. I'll also do a maternity wear haul soon. 👙💘
I hate how overly sexualised the female body is, to the point that even as women we subconsciously judge each other. How many of us make assumptions about a woman's morality based on the way she dresses or boob size, or think we should keep covered up if we don't want unwanted attention? It's normal to think these things as we all grew up in the same system, but we have to question ourselves when these thoughts come up and be better.
I thought we might get a break during pregnancy but nope; turns out we still get catcalled and creepy DMs. And then when we're new mums we have to feel ashamed for breastfeeding in public when that is literally the purpose of boobs.
To all my big boobied women, pregnant or not, we got this! ♀️💪
This lingerie set is @curvykate, and I like it because it's supportive but still a bit sexy. I did a free virtual boob fitting with @weirwonderful (she does them for everyone and I'd recommend, especially if your pregnant). 👙


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