アギーのインスタグラム(aggie) - 11月16日 18時16分
Turns out getting engaged is NOT a magic wand that takes away all the underlying core wounds and insecurities that we carry with us into the relationship.
in preparation for a wedding, we decided to work with what I call a wedding Doula - someone who has been happily married for almost 20 years and will help me become a better wife for Jacob.
Luci gave us a simple task: answered the two questions below, while looking at each other’s eyes every night before going to sleep:
1️⃣ I am the most scared of …
2️⃣ I really desire …
That’s it.
it sounded super simple, but it brought us closer. For example, I wasn’t too excited about Jacob’s crazy travel schedule that meant I will not see him til the end of the year.
I want to see my fiancé, because I am really scared we will grow apart.
But he also shared that he’s scared of that too, and that he desires to push himself creatively this year.
I don’t necessarily believe in compromise, but I am so glad that we had that conversation because it made me see ❤️ Jacob🤴🏼 in a completely different eye and now I’m excited for him to travel.
Vulnerability is good.
Fly high baby.
I want to see you soar 🦅
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