Nicole Mejiaのインスタグラム(nicole_mejia) - 4月21日 04時47分

?You don't have to wait until you reach your goal to love yourself.
??That was a lesson that took me 28 years to learn.
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Let's be real, goals are FOREVER evolving and changing.
My self-acceptance used to be contingent upon reaching the top of a never ending staircase.
The further I climbed, the more I aspired to achieve.
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But then I started connecting dots on true love and how different my relationship had always been with myself:
Do I only love my parents when they reach a goal or get a promotion?
Do I only feel love for my boyfriend when he buys me gifts or compliments my body?
Do I only have love for my siblings when they talk about what I want and do the things that I like to do?
No.
I love them all unconditionally regardless of where they're at in life or what they're going through.
In their beautiful imperfections, they are still more than worthy of that.
Is this the type of love that I've been depriving myself of all these years?
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Why was the love I had for myself based upon accomplishments and merit when I was able to love those closest to me without boundaries or contingencies?
When one of them is having a bad day, do I kick them while they are down or shower them with support?
?Imagine what you would be able to let go of and move on towards if you were to love yourself that unconditionally.
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