イスクラ・ローレンスさんのインスタグラム写真 - (イスクラ・ローレンスInstagram)「9 months into our breastfeeding journey and finally finding peace in the chaos The expectations for a new mom are INSANE Heal Snap back Be happy + don’t forget to document everything Function with zero sleep Breastfeed your baby 24/7 Make sure you’re still giving your partner enough attention Sex? Oh and don’t give up on your career, you don’t wanna lose yourself or your ambitions This is by no means a complaint, I couldn’t be more grateful for our family. Most days are over flowing with joy and love But I refuse to paint an unrealistic picture of motherhood being only sweet moments like this pic I’ve broken down, sobbed, felt lost and like a failure. I was terrified when my milk supply stopped and I couldn’t feed my baby (always have formula in the house) I see you mommas - everything you’re feeling even the ugly thoughts and feelings are valid I have come to peace with the fact I won’t be able to exclusively breastfeed (my little one doesn’t have to patience to wait for a second let down and doesn’t fully empty my breast so my body thinks oh I don’t have to produce as much milk) I pump multiple times a day to keep up my supply and I have to supplement with formula (can we please stop shaming moms for this) Breastfeeding is not guaranteed or as easy as we are all made to believe it is, and with constant messaging everywhere saying breast is best - feeding your baby is best period I’m not a lactation consultant (clearly🤷‍♀️) and highly recommend if you’re able to afford that support and need help with breastfeeding. My friend had one and shared some info with me that definitely helped I’m also going to do a video soon all about how I brought my milk supply back from zero to 50oz a day (pumping, sleep, eating more, supplements and lactation recipes) I cherish all the beautiful moments, the challenges and ultimately the journey of being the best mommy I can to my baby, and I’m sending all the love to those who are dealing with infertility my prayers are with you and you’re doing amazing❤️🙏 Also did you peep our new @lovesac sectional👀 wanted one for years and finally upgraded, will post a vid soon」2月13日 2時03分