テス・ホリデーさんのインスタグラム写真 - (テス・ホリデーInstagram)「When I posted a few days ago that I was single, I wasn’t expecting the reaction that followed. (Mostly bc I’ve talked about it before, but I suppose never as blunt as that post) I obviously know that I’m a public figure, & y’all see what I choose to share, which isn’t always indicative of real life. So I understand that to some of you, it was a shock. I’m always honest & transparent with y’all, but at the end of the day, I’m a human being, & deserving of respect. Even though I got overwhelming support that day, there were still a lot of people that said pretty hurtful, judgemental, & unfair things, and I’m not going to lie, some of them really got to me. So I snapped these photos that evening, for just myself, because I wasn’t feeling my best, but now I want to share them. I’m a fat, queer, single working mom, who is finding out who she is again after being in a relationship for nearly 7 years that wasn’t the healthiest. I stand by what I said, women shouldn’t be responsible for rehabilitating men (plz follow @femalecollective @risingwoman @kingsophiesworld @elwingbling for more info on this, all of their work helped me immensely the past year), & women often get blamed for not doing “enough” to “save” their relationships. Guess what? We don’t have to carry that. We are only responsible for ourselves and our actions. I feel more empowered & happier than ever, & only got to this place by fully understanding my own worth. So yea, if you read all of this, thank you. Please give that same energy to sharing my previous post about getting justice for Elijah, because that is way more important than my love life. Love you all, and we are all in this together. #chooseyourself #effyourbeautystandards #radicalselflove」8月5日 4時36分