Bianca Cheah Chalmersさんのインスタグラム写真 - (Bianca Cheah ChalmersInstagram)「Someone told me that when Oliver will be at college, I will long for the days where he will “need me” like this. I will long for hugs and squeezes and his desire to be attached to me ALL THE TIME. So when you tell me "it goes so fast," I hear what you are really saying. Not necessarily the newborn days but simply, the days before today. The days when something — newborn snuggles, breastfeeding, a beloved rattle, a Moses basket 🧺 — was every day and then, without warning, was never again. I hear what you’re saying, because while my today is your yesterday, I already see it as another mother's tomorrow. I know that your lenses are not colored by roses, but by motherhood. And while you do remember the challenges, the joys are more vibrant, the wonder of those moments more clear, and you are trying to help me capture it. Because just like those newborn snuggles, once they are gone, they don't come back. As the saying goes, babies don't keep. We can't freeze time, we can't turn back the clock. So when you see me in your old shoes, you say what you can. The four words that you desperately hope will convey that these days — that feel like years — will slip right through my fingers. But, don't worry. Whether I'm teaching Olly to walk or curled up by his crib at all hours of the night helping him to sleep, I know that these moments are magic in its purest form. And I, too, know that I will wake up tomorrow missing today. Because it really does go by SO fast. @mother.ly // #motherhood #mumlife #parenthood #mama #10monthsoldbaby」5月25日 5時32分