ホイットニー・ポートのインスタグラム(whitneyeveport) - 7月24日 01時49分

This is really hard for me to write. Two weeks ago, I had a miscarriage. The amount of various emotions I felt in the past couple weeks have been extreme...from shock to sadness to relief, which then led to guilt for feeling that relief. My identity has been shaken in regards to who as a mom and human being. I’m currently in the process of learning to accept that my feelings are valid no matter what they are. Whether or not people feel the same way as me or not. They are my personal emotions that are the result from my own journey. The video above is a glimpse into the story and coming to terms with how I feel. I welcome anyone to share their stories or feelings. I want my platform to be an open place where we can share difficult conversations. To see more of this video click the link in my bio. and to hear the full conversation visit my podcast #WITHWHIT

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getpretty_rachellelee You have always been my favorite. And I@ so sorry you have gone through this but I do love that you are sharing your feelings along with the belief that no one can invalidate that ❤️. I found out a year ago my spouse of 10 years molested my oldest son for 5 years while I focused on my career as a chef. I was gone a lot and most days I was so tired when I was home I wasn’t getting any quality time with my kids. I have always been extremely open with all of my kids about everything in hopes that they would fully understand they could come to me no matter what! But this evil person came in and reprogrammed my son. I hold so much guilt of my own because I never had a clue. I missed the signs. I was more focused on providing because I was the bread winner but I failed my son. When we called the police after it all came out we had an amazing CPS worker who brought all my kids in and questioned them. I was relieved to learn it had only happened to one of my 4 children. And then more guilt set in. I felt it unfair to my oldest to be relieved he was the only one. At the end of the day there is no rule book on how to feel in any situation and that’s because there is no right way. Unless you feel the need to support those that hurt others, especially molesters, rapists and murderers.... sorry no one can change my opinion on that. But we do need to have more open conversations regarding these life changing events. I learned how common my situation is when I started to open up to people about it. It is now my goal to find a better way, a safer place for people to open up and heal together. A healing village of people, especially women and children, where we can just love, support and most importantly, LISTEN to each other.

k.a.i.t.l.y.n_p.r.e.s.l.e.y I admire your honestly and your willingness to be so open, raw, and vulnerable about the whole situation and how you’re feeling but at the same time having compassion and understanding to other women who have also gone through it. Unfortunately I have had multiple miscarriages and it’s hard to overcome the pain of loosing them. I think about the what if’s and could have beens. But I put my faith above it all and eventually healed from that hurt. Just like I know you will. It’s okay to take your time and it’s okay to be unsure of things. You’ll know in your gut when you wanna try again. And it’s okay to be scared and unsure the second time around because at the end of the day you’ll love that baby unconditionally. All feelings are valid and should be validated. I validate yours and it’s so refreshing to see this and your hubby also be so supportive and your rock. Just know you have so many who can relate. I know I do. Sending love and positive vibes your way. ?

suzannewinkler I am so sorry for your loss. My now husband and I had an unplanned pregnancy before we were married. When our son was only a year old, we had another unplanned pregnancy that ended in an early miscarriage. First, I felt stupid that we had two “surprises” and second, it was overwhelming as like you said, the timing wasn’t ideal. I did feel a sense of relief and then guilt for that and guilt for not being more devastated. A couple of years later we had our daughter, who was very planned. It wasn’t until years later that I felt a huge sense of sadness over losing that baby. I still think a lot about it- what would he/she have been like? Now my kids are 10 and 7 and I realize it all turned out how it was supposed to. That pregnancy wasn’t meant to be, and if it had, I may not have met my daughter.

cmboyd86 My son was supposed to be a twin but I had a miscarriage at 10weeks It was hard to hear that bc u always wonder... my son is the light of my life love him more then anything and my husband and I have always said one and done bc if my hard pregnancy... I’m only 32 and they just had to take my right ovary and both tubes the tubes were damaged bc I had a cyst inside my ovary that I was born with that decided to start rapidly growing (it went from the size of a grain of rice to a softball in 4months) non cancerous thank god!!!! now knowing I don’t have the equipment to make babies kinda makes me feel less than... thank u for opening up and being honest you are not alone.... when the time is right and if u want more babies u will have ur very own rainbow baby

faithfullydreaming I know EXACTLY how you’re feeling. I found out I was pregnant when my daughter turned 8 months old. My first feeling was immediate fear of how the hell am I going to do this? My daughter still woke up multiple times at night, I wasn’t ready to wean her from nursing, I’m a working mom, how would I afford daycare for 2. We miscarried at 10 weeks 4 days. To this day I blame myself. It was a miracle I was pregnant naturally. We had to do 3 rounds of ivf to have my daughter. There I was miraculously pregnant and I had more fear than joy. I’ll always wonder if the stress contributed to losing that precious baby. And I wish I was still pregnant. I’d be 28 weeks right now. ? You’re not alone. Thank you for sharing this.

klwilson420 Thank you for sharing this. I, too, went through a miscarriage early this Spring. I have a beautiful, healthy daughter that was born around the same time as Sonny, July 2017. I shared so many of the same emotions and reactions as you, especially the shock to sadness to relief, and even now I struggle with the sadness knowing that I lost someone that would have been a Harper (my daughter). So many walk this path and your feelings are always valid because it is YOUR unique experience. You are not alone. Thank you, again, for sharing this as well as so much else in your life. You’re a rockstar of a mama! ❤️?? ?

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