ホイットニー・ポートのインスタグラム(whitneyeveport) - 7月15日 01時24分

We have been going to Lake of the Ozark in Missouri since I was born. I have the BEST memories there and love it more than I can explain. Since my dad passed, going there has been bittersweet. I get so excited to go but when I’m there all I can think about is him. I want to take my family there forever, but I need to figure out how to separate the sadness from the fun so we can make new memories and give Sonny the gift I got.

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emilycaterham You shouldn't be sad. He is more than okay and with you in spirit. We are so close to the spirit world that it's literally a thin translucent veil that is separating us from them. Technically, we're not even separated. We often think we are and feel that we are but the problem many of us have is that we don't know how to communicate with spirit (if your not a medium like myself) and also, many are not listening and paying close attention when they are speaking and communicating. I have a great book that you can find in Barnes & Noble that I recommend you read Whit. Your dad is always around you and especially your son. Meditation would be great for you. Especially, meditation music to help you calm and work on tuning into the spirit world. This sadness from what I pick up also stems from fear that is within. Fear and worry. Worried if your loved one is okay. Fear that the more time passes.. That you may forget or that the connection you had would be lost. No worries because the connection will never be disconnected and lost. I'll send you the book info later. I'm on my way to school today. ????

tamar_fix @whitneyeveport I lost my father 10 years ago. Instead of “figuring out how to separate the sadness from the fun” perhaps it’s more realistic to choose the fun even through the sadness. I don’t know the exact words that will resonate and feel true for you but there is no “how to”. It’s more that you continue to live and find, one day, that you have moved through it or perhaps more accurately that the sadness takes different shape over time. Maybe one day you realize the sadness isn’t as strong as it once once or that the sadness has turned into a positive feeling of connection when you are there with your family. I’m not sure where the road will take you but the only thing to actually do is invite yourself to go on the feeling journey to get there and then allow yourself to feel all the feels until they begin to slowly transform into other new feels. ❤️?? 10 years later and the void exists strong & powerful but the love & continued connection exist in tandem. Sending love ?

madijayne I thought you posted about the Ozarks a few years ago but couldn’t remember if it was you or not. I haven’t been in a good 15 years even though I live in the state. I found it too busy for me. I actually prefer Norfolk Lake just below the MO/AR border. Table Rock and Bull Shoals are good lakes too (all three are linked together by rivers and tributaries). But if you want to continue to go to LOTO then I suggest doing something there to honor him. You don’t have to do it every time but do it and tell him that you won’t ever forget him but it’s time to make your own memories with your son. Your dad will be all around you when you’re there but don’t let that make you sad, it should make you happy that he is there watching it all happen. He might even throw in a rainbow or send a sign that he’s there. ❤️❤️

debhube As someone who is part of the lost my daddy too young club too, it’s ok to take a break for a few years till you feel ready to go back . It took me five years to go back to the country home town where my dad died and I spent my summers in between sleep away camp as a kid . Now I’m Ok when I go there. Also watching season one and two of the hit show “ Ozark” might certainly give u another perspective and make u glad you have those memories and less sad. First episode u feel like why am I watching this depressing trash and then it stays trash but writing and acting is excellent and your like wow, my life is amazing! Sorry about your dad . He’s there with you. I promise.

lieslrene I lost my dad 3 years ago and I was a serious daddy's girl. I find myself not feeling sadness anymore. Not because I dont miss him or love him but because I have decided to replace the sadness with joy. This is NOT easy and it takes time. Instead of feeling sad because he's not with me I try and focus on what he would have loved about what was happening or what we are doing. We do things papa would have loved, eat things that remind me of him, talk about him and miss him. It makes the sadness less present and my heart hurts way less when I think of him

audchik I know the feeling. It’s been 4 years since I lost my dad and I still feel that ache lingering during those fun family moments that he’s missing from. Now I’m pregnant and I know it will be hard to not have him around to meet my baby. But I also hope that it will help me start a new chapter of positive family memories. I think we have to remember that our dads would never want us to have lingering sadness hover over our good times. We need to be grateful for the memories and continue to build new ones ❤️

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