ギャランス・ドレのインスタグラム(garancedore) - 1月31日 02時14分

How able am I to truly listen? .
Probably not so much. Listening is not just the act of keeping silent while someone is speaking, to then placate your point of view and your stories on them.
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Listening is opening yourself completely without trying to change, give advice or project anything on what someone is saying - or trying to show who you are and bring everything back to you. It’s softening a lot. It’s not easy. And of course, the more intimate, the more precious the relationship - the more difficult. .
I wonder why we’re not taught these things at school. The art of listening should be a sacred life tool!
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Having a podcast is teaching me a lot about this art as a form. But more than anything as usual, well, the deep teaching comes from all the mistakes I have made, in the line of what Maya Angelou said “When someone shows you who they are, believe them.” To me it could be “when people tell you who they are, listen to them.” Because if we listen, they really do. .

I am trying to become better at listening. And I am trying to start by listening to myself. Meditation is helping finding that softness and openness and find the answers inside.
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When I meet you, I really hope I am able to listen to you. .
PS one of my favorite #PMF EVER just came out, the one with @perla_servan_schreiber - I’ll put the link in my stories. To me, it was so truly life changing. Okay have a wonderful day!

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