テリーサ・パーマーさんのインスタグラム写真 - (テリーサ・パーマーInstagram)「Many many nights over the last 15 years spent lurking the TTC and Pregnancy online forums - discussing DPO, BFP, BFN, BD, FMU, GD, AF blah bitty blah, if you know, you know. This wasn’t just during my secondary infertility experience either it was from about age 18 when I first started dreaming of motherhood. It was during this online community I heard the term “babydust” meaning a little sprinkling of good luck on your trying to conceive journey. I remember mapping it all out in my head; Girl, girl, then boy, boy. I had all the names picked out too. The dreaming had begun.⁣ ⁣ Today on @themotherdazepodcast we talk about the concept of the loss of expectation in many forms with a particular focus on an area so shrouded in secrecy that even we weren’t sure how to navigate it with the delicacy and fragility needed. There’s such shame and stigma surrounding it; the feelings of disappointment that can come up for parents when the biological sex of your child doesn’t align with what you’ve dreamt of. (Always dreamt of having girls but have boys? wanted a son to raise but were blessed with daughters?) Helping us to unpack this intricate discussion is microbiology, immunology & molecular genetics expert and author of The Babydust Method, Kathryn Taylor (@thebabydustmethod) Together with Kathryn, we unfurl the complexities of this discussion, recognizing the damage that gender stereotyping has and understanding the innate privilege of conceiving a healthy child at all whilst also holding the space for those grieving the idealized child to have somewhere to land (and a starting point to explore where these feelings are stemmed from) Kathryn also breaks down her revolutionary book which outlines methods based on the latest scientific research to dramatically increase your chances of conceiving a baby of a particular biological sex and why she’s committed to supporting those people who are walking this path. Her story is unbelievable, moving and devastating all at once. Listen to this episode wherever you get your podcasts and please be mindful with your comments. Thank you ❤️❤️⁣ ⁣ #babydustmethod #girlorboy #conception #pregnancy #genderreveal #pregnancy #baby #ttc⁣」8月10日 20時22分