ベサニー・ジョイ・レンツさんのインスタグラム写真 - (ベサニー・ジョイ・レンツInstagram)「Public Service Announcement • I lived this way for many many years. It kept my personality buried, kept my career from moving forward, kept my friendships from developing properly, kept my spiritual life from developing properly... I take responsibility for allowing this. But once you know, you must also take responsibility for breaking free and growing past it. It’s never too late. You don’t need the people/person who’ve convinced you you do need them. Identify what you’re getting out of letting someone else control your world and self image. For me, it was a deep fear of making mistakes- Subconsciously I thought if I turned control of my choices over to other people, i wouldn’t have to risk being wrong. I could take credit for all the good things, and blame someone else for all the bad things. My Friends, this is not living. You MUST make mistakes. You MUST make your own decisions if you want to really grow, really live, really experience joy! Don’t cop out of your life. #gaslightingisreal • If someone (or a group of people) is gaslighting you there is a high probability they are a #Narcissist and you are a #codependent Narcissists ONLY get involved with Co-Dependent people. It’s a requirement for their emotional/psychological food supply. If you find that you’re vampire food... figure out why. 🩸 Sending LOVE out to y’all 🌻」8月21日 3時37分