Bianca Cheah Chalmersのインスタグラム(biancamaycheah) - 7月28日 06時48分
Baby Blues Got Me 😪😖😭 When the nurse told me to beware of the next two weeks of crying and feeling down, I took it with a grain of salt, “neh — I got this” I told her — “a piece of cake”. I couldn’t wait to look after baby Chalmers and bring him into our lives.
Now almost a week and a half post partum, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve cried and cried and cried 😭, the feeling of being so OVERWHELMED. It’s an emotional roller coaster — the guilt of my body not cooperating with birth, the total drop in hormones, the night sweats, the radical change in lifestyle, NO SLEEP, feeding every 2 hours 24/7, worrying about my lack of milk supply for my hungry baby, the healing and pain, and caring for Baby Chalmers all at once. Some days I just think I can’t do it anymore and want to go back to hospital because the help and nurses there were just beyond amazing. But then I just stare at Baby Chalmers when he falls asleep on my breast and it all goes away for 30 minutes while I remind myself of this beautiful mini human I just created over the past 9 months. Baby Blues is real, and it’s my support network and all YOUR lovely daily DM’s I’m reading that’s been getting me through it. Thank you all so much — women supporting women 🙌🏽. I just have to remember, this too shall pass.
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@biancamaycheah
Hey hun this is all very natural and normal to go through this postpartum and motherhood in general is an emotional, physical and spiritual metamorphosis🦋 you will change and grow in ways you never imagined. Take it slow and reach for support, congratulations & welcome to womanhood goddess❤️ you may find your drawn to new information to help you understand all of the shifts occurring. Check out @slowpostpartum . There is a whole other conscious community of women out there that are dedicated to educating & supporting women about the rite of passage for Mothers during this time..it certainly is an incredible journey with a mix bag of emotions daily ( that to be honest doesn’t change🙈 ) this is why it’s so important to keep like minded people around you as you grow into your new role✨ much love to you
libbybabet
Oh @biancamaycheah I remember those feels in the early days... it’s such a whirlwind and a total life change and there’s nothing that can prepare you for the onslaught of learnings and fear and adjustment and looovveeeee and hormone rollercoastering and the giving up of personal freedoms (and those bloody night sweats gah I hated those!). It gets easier, your head will become clearer, you’ll create a new normal and they become more and more awesome to hang out with... take a breath when you can and any help you can get, and know that you’ll only feel better and better as time goes on and you get pieces of you back... right now you can only exist for them and that’s as confronting as it is wonderful! You’re doing a beautiful job, and your lil bub is just beautiful 😘😘💓💓
ridumizzu
Ur rgt this too shall pass before u Even realise, and plz don't worry about milk supply it depends on the demand and supply policy😉.. baby is too small to eat too much that's y u only have how much he needs... And one thing I can tell you is don't start pumping too soon because it's very stressful in the initial stage😖 you may get sick of it!! Allow baby to breast feed and he will be very relaxed and comfortable listening to Ur heart beat which he use to hear all the time in Ur tummy!! Give it time enjoy every moment every emotion, and cry it out when u really want to and then Ur good to go😘❤️
dulciedb
You are tougher than you think sweetie. Elle was allergic to my breast milk and for the 1st 4 months she was in pain and cried non stop until a very caring doctor tested her and discovered I was destroying her bowel due to excessive lactose in my milk. I felt guilty putting her on formula, however, she thrived and was instantly happy. As you say B everyone is different. My advice is trust your instincts and always seek professional help if you are worried about anything. Love your honesty. This too will pass.🙏🥰
5usiewong
This is motherhood- it’s a continuous cycle of adaptation and change. You are doing what you’re supposed to do- there is no rule book, there is no easy fix for anything but there is always a way, even when you’re at breaking point. That’s when you pick yourself up, talk to your besties and lean on hubby for what you need to do it all again. You are all doing what’s needed at that point in time, with all that you have even when you feel it’s not enough. But it’s enough. Remember that x
jlove1510
Awwwww I remember this time. Those first 6-8 weeks are soooo full on! I remember my husband and I saying, why do people do this???? Haha then you just love that baby SO much and he becomes your number one priority. It just gets better and better and it does get easier, although there are different challenges, nothing is as intense as that first new shock of parenthood!!!! Your body has gone through SOOOO much @biancamaycheah 💙 You Got This mumma!!!! Oliver is a lucky boy xxx
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