アマンダ・サイフリッドのインスタグラム(mingey) - 7月10日 12時03分
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kirstenpippin
@claire_barbour you’re right! It would be an excellent opportunity to talk about different body types. I don’t think that conversation is going to come from her being bullied very very publicly for her size. It would have been a lot better for these celebs to use their influence to support her and start a conversation about the pressures moms face postpartum, the taboo associated with having help, how long it takes to feel comfortable in your own skin etc. it could’ve been about the different experiences they had and if they decided to workout to feel themselves again or bake everyday. Instead they chose to attack and bully her. And yes she was talking about her diet and exercise- when people asked- in the comments, but I don’t see the issue with that considering it’s something she believes in and very obviously works hard at. She can be proud of her body and still want to take care of it in a way that works for her! There is not a single person in Instagram who discloses on their pictures that they look the way they do because of genetics. Ever. It shouldn’t matter that her figure is unattainable by most women, because we shouldn’t be focusing on comparing ourselves to other women. I think this was a great opportunity to foster an environment that supports other women instead of adding fuel to this super toxic one that compares and tears down. That environment of comparison comes with living in the social media age, and it’s more important than ever to spread the message through our words and actions that worthiness doesn’t come through comparison. There’s no “normal” body. if you have a body you’re normal and you should absolutely be proud of that! We should encourage other women to love the body they’re in for all it is capable of doing without worrying about the body of another. Young girls are watching and they are learning from us how to feel about their own bodies and how to talk to others about theirs. We should all be trying to turn the easy accessibility into each others’ lives into a constructive experiment in kindness.
claire_barbour
@kirstenpippin if you have an issue with the wording of the original comment included in this post that’s you’re prerogative. IMO, the conversation about body image is a much larger more important one that many people tried to start in a less aggressive way on the first photo she posted. She is unfortunately refusing to discuss the larger issues because she’s only focusing on her own journey. Which is sad because what she shares from her life now does impact quite a large amount of people. Unfortunately I think you’re missing the point. It’s not the picture or the caption.. it’s the fact she’s not addressing the issues and insinuating that this is all due to bouncing back from a baby/exercise/diet. Which is not accurate and its honestly extremely reckless! I do think when someone who is very influential is being extremely reckless in their engagement with social media, it is needed (especially since this is the second time this week and she’s now BLOCKING anyone who isn’t praising her). Arielle is a brand now. When brands do irresponsible or reckless things in their advertising/product delivery, people react! As they should! And if she was smart she would use this as an opportunity to learn and grow both as a brand and herself as a woman
claire_barbour
@kirstenpippin this is not the only comment anyone made and this is also the second occurrence this week that she’s posted (what she knew would be) a controversial picture. The first photo she posted many people did comment about how this should not be considered “goals” for people without her body type. But Arielle is only responding to people who are glorifying her figure rather than trying to discuss the larger issue with posting a photo like that. It’s great that you’re so wise, cognizant, and strong when it comes to not feeling influenced by social media. I would encourage you to read through the comments on her post and see the multiple women who comment about how they wish they had her body/want to get to her figure. Arielle needs to be commenting on it in general and she’s not. I get she’s probably focused on just trying to be proud of herself in lieu of the mean commenters, but this issue is much bigger than her ego and someone with that much influence needs to understand the responsibility that comes with said influence.
livingnotes
I applaud you. You empower. You stand up for what is right. You are not afraid to call things what they are. Thank you. And for this particular situation, thank you for speaking for all those who did voice the obvious. The lady in question does have a lot more privileges than most people do. It’s wonderful for her. It’s her life, but if her livelihood and brand are based off regular people, than their needs ( emotional too) must be taken into consideration as well. As a creative professional where physique is essential and person who had 7 children myself, I will say with 100% certainty that even different pregnancies can bring 100% different reactions from a body, things that women CANNOT always control. We need more inclusivity and more voices that speak for what NORMAL is. Which comes in all shapes, thin or curvy, smooth or with bumps. One is not better than the other, but yes, there is such a thing as thin privilege and it MUST be voices and be acknowledged too. Thank you for not being silent about this ❤️
snuckersby
Empowering other women would be kindly asking them to put a little more thought into what they’re putting out there and why - not putting the burden of patriarchal attitudes towards women *on other women.* Having the privilege of being a wealthy/thin woman still doesn’t make a woman responsible for the patriarchy and it especially doesn’t make her deserving of being accused of supporting the fetishization of thin women’s bodies. Sisterhood is IMPORTANT and I think that if we spend our time tearing each other apart we’ll have a harder time standing up to the men who sexualize and demean us. I admire your courage to bring this up and wanting support your friend is wonderful, but I think the criticism your friend had of this unnamed woman would be better directed towards men who fetishize women.
sisamisag
You struck some nerves, I see. Not mine. As a mother of 2, I agree whole-heartedly with your sentiment. I work full time, have 2 kids, and a husband who travels for work. I have a full time nanny, weekly cleaning ladies, and my parents help many evenings with bedtime. I am extremely fortunate and yet still don't have time to work out. I barely have time to cook dinner. It's nearly impossible to get it all done and something always gives. You just have to decide what you are ok with being mediocre. At this point in my life, I have put exercise on the back burner. When I take lunch at work, I usually go to visit my husbands elderly grandmother in the rehab facility and advocate for her. I have prioritized family over exercise. It's hard. And yes, let's focus on those kids in cages...
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