アマンダ・サイフリッドのインスタグラム(mingey) - 7月10日 10時36分
Fuck it- this is feed material. My very smart friend (again-not tagging) wrote this on a semi-influencer’s feed and she blocked both of us (even though I didn’t tag her-at least she’s getting the message). If we’re ready to get paid for flaunting our lifestyle (and inspiring some in the meantime) we have to be open to the discussions surrounding what we’re promoting. We have to back ourselves up- not run away from the issues it presents. There are gray areas everywhere. Each of us has a chance to back ourselves- especially on this platform. If you know who you are- take a second to decide if what you’re throwing out there is worth it- in the big picture. 👊🏼
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herrovero
Some people, I imagine, (including the actual influencer) don't really get how social media influencers hold their power. The only thing most people have to compare themselves to are celebrities, models, or whoever's trending on IG. I used to be 110lbs, crop-topping and, by standard, skinny. But I was still unhappy. I was prescribed antidepressants and had a severe allergic reaction to them called Stevens Johnson Syndrome. I lost 45% of my skin, went legally blind at the time, am struggling with weight gain and still find myself upset at times when I see washboard abs on girls the same age as me. It sometimes takes a lot of misfortune or tragedy to put into perspective what is important in life. People can't help but want an impossible body image when it's put out as a standard. I agree that it's no one's responsibility over another's misfortune. But it still makes such a big difference how you choose your words when you have the ability to affect others. Being tactful is a kindness. And being graceful with criticism shows a lot of character.
kimmacph_
Idk who this post is referring to but if I was them I would block you guys as well. Like what was the point in this comment?! What are you achieving by judging someone else's social media page? If u dont have anything nice to say just dont say it. U guys clearly wanted to start drama by posting this which is v childish. Also saying that a girl who is thin has a child like body which can attract predators is just down right wrong and disgusting that ur brain even works like that. Ur talking about an unrealistic body image. But guess what, some women do have really thin bodies. That's real. Some women have typical supermodel figures. That's real. These women are still real woman. What makes u a real woman is ur age. That is all. U cannot say someone is not a woman because they dont have big tits or fat rolls. Your post seems to come from a place of jealousy and deep insecurities on your guys part. I hope u work out these insecurities.
mfost9
@mingey @sophieflack Thank you!! I am a psychologist specializing in treating eating disorders in teens and adults. You hit the nail on the head and had the balls to say what needed to be said, respectfully.
The issue here isn’t her body, it’s the way it was shared and posted. When you post about pride for your body’s appearance (vs your body’s abilities like creating and sustaining life) you demonstrate your values very clearly. Clearly we (and many others) don’t share the same values and are alarmed with the messages she’s sending as a mother, influencer, and designer. What I see in my patients is that the eating disorder and the person actually often share different values (eg the ED values thinness while the person actually doesn’t and just wants to be happy). You have started up some important conversation and I do hope it helps draw attention to these important issues and encourages some greater introspection on her part.
izzyfrench
Thank you for bringing attention to this. I would hardly call what you’re doing here bullying. Considering the # of young fan girls this particular “influencer” has, it’s always left a sour taste in my mouth just how little she talks about anything of true substance on her personal account. At first I had to remind myself that at its core this is a fashion blog. But as soon as she hit a certain level of popularity, to the point where she separated out her personal and professional insta accounts, is when that line officially blurred. I hate to say it though-she’s not going to change much as it’s pretty clear that one of the reasons she rarely speaks out on anything politically charged or socially progressive is because she and her husband worship at the alter of Fox News. Not saying this to fan flames-they’ve said this outright in the past. Just sayin...it speaks volumes about who she is. So, there’s that.
laurrbrookee
Women shaming other women in 2019 is just absurd. Especially body shaming. It’s like you’re mad that she is a successful woman in business. She is the most successful blogger in the business right now, with an huge Brand at one of the biggest retail stores in America. She deserves everything she has. And on top of that, her body is her genetics and everyone knows that. She isn’t giving off a false image at all. She is who she is. Leave her alone... I’ve been a fan of you since mama Mia, dear john, and everything else. I’m surprised you’d be on offense here instead of riding her up. She earned and deserves everything she has. She is incredible in business and in family. @lalalexisxo agree? @mingey agree? Or?
anastasijanunez
Finally somebody from Hollywood talks bout the reality of life and not leading people to believe in images that are done for promotions, ads, PR. Being a mother, it really does take time to get your body back in shape (that’s if you want to do so, some may be happy as they are). Early mornings, gyms, exercises, feeding, raising, supporting other halves and so on. Instagram is becoming an even bigger illusion!! With an end tag #ad after many famous posts, people still believe that the person is genuinely promoting something because they love it.. Good for you for posting this in your feed @mingey. If this platform is about speaking out, then you absolutely should do that and feel confident about your views.
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