I blocked someone yesterday. It was a long time follower who would alternate between nice comments and really cutting backhanded remarks. They were almost comical in their passive-aggressiveness. She’s been doing it for years and I finally had enough. It’s the first time I’ve ever blocked a real follower. But I realized I had an unhealthy fascination with what she would say next and I couldn’t help responding back to her. She wasn’t wrong in some of her assessments, but it did feel unnecessary to have my worst fears and insecurities spat back at me as if judging my parenting was part of normal discourse. I know my faults. You don’t need to tell me. Then I started thinking, maybe it’s not a lady who really cares about how badly I am raising my kids and instead some guy in his basement whose been trolling me for all these years? Because you should know— if you say mean things on the internet, that’s what I am going to assume. Her (His) last comment before I blocked her was especially harsh. And then immediately, it all disappeared and I was mad I hadn’t screenshot any of it first. But that’s unhealthy too. Why do I need a record of negative comments? Better to forget and live my life and do my best and not care about the petty people hiding behind their Instagram handles in this world. Lift the weight off, toss it aside and don’t look back. I should probably end with a Taylor Swift quote, but I’ll refrain. #??

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I blocked someone yesterday. It was a long time follower who would alternate between nice comments and really cutting backhanded remarks. They were almost comical in their passive-aggressiveness. She’s been doing it for years and I finally had enough. It’s the first time I’ve ever blocked a real follower. But I realized I had an unhealthy fascination with what she would say next and I couldn’t help responding back to her. She wasn’t wrong in some of her assessments, but it did feel unnecessary to have my worst fears and insecurities spat back at me as if judging my parenting was part of normal discourse. I know my faults. You don’t need to tell me. Then I started thinking, maybe it’s not a lady who really cares about how badly I am raising my kids and instead some guy in his basement whose been trolling me for all these years? Because you should know— if you say mean things on the internet, that’s what I am going to assume. Her (His) last comment before I blocked her was especially harsh. And then immediately, it all disappeared and I was mad I hadn’t screenshot any of it first. But that’s unhealthy too. Why do I need a record of negative comments? Better to forget and live my life and do my best and not care about the petty people hiding behind their Instagram handles in this world. Lift the weight off, toss it aside and don’t look back. I should probably end with a Taylor Swift quote, but I’ll refrain. #??


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