シャンテル・ヴァンサンテンのインスタグラム(therealshantel) - 6月17日 22時27分

Honest writing from an intense 10 year old me who’s Father was in jail.
This isn’t a traditional post about my Dads on Fathers Day (Yes two, I have a father and step-father) but I hope it helps some of you. To be frank this day has always been difficult for me.
While I am grateful for both of their contributions and love, I think struggles with parental relationships is common for us all.
As a child I was confused about who to celebrate, fearing I would upset the other.
As a kid I felt sad, as I could only be with one of them.
As a teen I struggled with how to celebrate, as I was grieving abandonment.
As an adult I found a way to free myself of any of this guilt but this day still comes with deep scars.
I have come to accept both their humanness and horrors. I have found understanding and forgiveness in the process. It has taken therapy and guidance to find this freedom.
I do love both of my Dads. I have found gratitude for our journey because each part has made me exactly who I am. ***********************************
But I’m here to tell you it’s ok if today is a painful reminder. If your relationship is strained. If your lack of a male figure leaves you empty today. If you’re confused or sad. You’re not alone. I see you. Today reach out to a person who has helped you grow, inspired you, gave you life... let them know you love them. Maybe that person shares the blood in your veins and maybe they don’t. Either way let yourself be guided by love today.

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