Just wanted to write my own little thoughts about the whole "Instagram vs Real Life" concept. It's a valuable point but it's so hard to actually capture or achieve in a photo because your "real life" photo example is most likely in a spot with decent lighting, and it's really hard to conciously turn off all effort of posing when you are taking a photo of yourself/having a photo taken. I think the whole "versus photo" is a good idea but it actually is counterproductive in some cases because it's near impossible (for me anyway) to capture "real life" when I'm still taking a photo of myself in my designated selfie spot, if you know what I mean. All that aside though, the photo on the left is reasonably how I look when relaxed. I'm still turned at an angle that I think the light hits me in a flattering way so this is in no way a true representation of "real" but you know what I mean. I don't have an hourglass shape or a non existent waist line. I actually am shaped like a tube that thankfully has nice boobies haha. The photo on the right is an "Instagram" pose. Obviously I don't walk around looking like that, I can't even walk in that pose ? Also, these pictures were taken in the morning when I think I look leanest. I honestly wish I could post more photos like the more "real/relaxed" left photo, but social pressure, feelings of competition, body conciousness, and the whole fact that my work is built on having a crazy sexy feminine shape, make it hard to break out of that social norm/unrealistic expectation. I am working towards embracing my body in all its states, flexed or relaxed, casual or posed, and particularly in living this "body-love" on social media and for work. I think it's a lot healthier for myself and everyone that may see my posts or watch me on webcam, for me to try to relax and feel sexy as I am without needing to flex so hard I can't breath, or get back pain from sticking out my butt. I want to be a cam girl for a long time so I want to take care of my body and love it and show it off as it really is without having to stress about so many little details or try to be perfect. Anyway, long post, thank you for following me! ❤❤

violet_mfcさん(@violet_mfc)が投稿した動画 - 2017/07/14 02:36:36