シェネルのインスタグラム(chenelleworld) - 3月25日 11時06分

Topic of the last two weeks for me has been forgiveness. For the longest I haven't been really able to grasp what that actually means Cos in most cases it's just the "right thing to do". U did something bad but it's ok it's best to just move on.
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I don't know about u but the things I've forgiven others on and forgiven myself about hasnt really felt like there was much of a change in how I feel. It was more like a bandaid over a wound that never heals. Acceptance however I've learned makes more sense to me in order to digest and understand forgiveness more.
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Really looking at a situation. Taking it in. Asking yourself questions to help clarify ur understanding of things, the good the bad the support, challenge of it all.. n seeing it for what it is.. why that situation, event, person, helped. Didn't help. Serve, didn't serve n then in understanding all of that u can from that make a choice of what u wanna do.
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Suffering is a choice . So is "being" happy.
Doesn't mean oh please continue to hurt me or hurt myself... it's more ok I understand both sides now. So will it serve me to continue this way and know why or will it no longer serve me and why.. then u make clearer choices.
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The wound starts to heal.. n it'll take time but it'll now heal .. the healing process is the awareness of ur acceptance the understanding, the whys.. Sure makes a big difference for me...
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