ルイス・グローバーさんのインスタグラム写真 - (ルイス・グローバーInstagram)「A Personal post: As a woman of childbearing years, I’m sick & tired of never knowing what to say when I get asked why don’t I have children at my age & do I want babies.. . Speaking as a “woman of childbearing age” (a horrifying term, as I’m sure you’ll agree!), there are so many reasons why people like myself may not have had children yet. Maybe we don’t want them, or can’t have them, or haven’t found the right person to have them with. Maybe we’re focusing on our career right now. Maybe we can’t afford to have a child right now. Or maybe we’re grieving a miscarriage, or having relationship problems, or under a lot of stress. • The list goes on. Because maybe we’re trying, have been trying for bloody ages, and nothing is happening. Maybe we’re still on the fence about whether we want to bring another human being into the world. Maybe we’ve read that the best way to help the environment is not to have children. Maybe we love our lifestyle too much to share it with another, smaller (and more demanding) person. Maybe the very idea of a baby literally forces us to come out in a cold sweat. • Or maybe – and this one seems particularly accurate right now – there’s an actual plague tearing its way through the world, and we have other, much more pressing things on our minds. . Being grilled on my why? is uncomfortable & no ones business but my own & I’m not one for living upto social norms. • #freedomofchoice #prejudged #clockisticking #socialnorms #nomakeup #realtalk #fertility #infertility #infertilityawareness #fertilitysupport #fertilityjourney #thingshappenforareason」1月21日 3時30分