ローラ・カークパトリックさんのインスタグラム写真 - (ローラ・カークパトリックInstagram)「I truly think if you don’t let jealousy distract you from your real goals and focus you will accomplish exactly what you want! Many of us let our wandering eye, jealousy or FOMO from truly reaching our goals. And that’s what we’re really mad that not their accomplishments. In Society calling someone jealous can be an act of aggression admitting your jealousy as an act of weakness abd defeat and usually you are judged for it. So what is one person to do when they are trying to do the right thing for themselves and their relationship? One thing I have found helpful is to STOP thinking that the other person might not truly be happy with in their accomplishment or what they have. for example anytime we do amitt jealous to someone they often we doubt we don’t know the whole story and you don’t know if that person is really that happy. but why can’t that person truly be happy and us not be jealous. why do they have to suffer in order for our jealousy to go away? because I hope one day when I meet my goals, that people around me are truly happy for me and I’m truly happy too. Like Beyoncé she seems to have it all and I hope o girl is happy!!!!! If anything the more happier people we have more likely they are to help you out! We use the thought of the possibility of not knowing the whole story and them not being happy as a comfort to our jealousy and I feel that just a bad bandaid instead of truly fixing the problem with in. And if you don’t think you’ve done this think how many of us have total or been told when jealous of a cheating ex being happy with her new girlfriend that he’ll probably cheat or she ain’t even that pretty as comfort! when in reality damn I hope he learned his lesson and never hurt another person again! I don’t wish anyone misery because I don’t want anyone wishing misery on myself! Another thing I do is I don’t want it fester inside me as soon as I found myself being jealous I immediately Amit it to someone that I know loves me unconditionally. Another thing I do is I force myself to say something nice about that person and something nice about myself that make us individuals photo @carriewilsonphotography」1月11日 4時11分