ジェサ・ヒントンさんのインスタグラム写真 - (ジェサ・ヒントンInstagram)「Today is #nationalcomingoutday & although I don't have an actual coming out story or specific event that happened, I find myself constantly explaining/ defending my sexuality. While it's entirely nobody's business, the more I talk about it, I find more women saying they feel the exact same way but never knew how to put it. I don't identify as straight. Nor gay. And I personally dislike the term bisexual. Which is what I've been called since 13 (or dyke when I'm dating a woman which is always a fan favorite). The term I connect w/ the most is Pansexual. Someone who is attracted to the person regardless of their sex or gender identity. My first kiss was at a party & I was 12. We all played the classic game - spin the bottle. The first kiss was with a boy (I forget his name) and the second was with a girl named Michelle. Although awkward, I liked both kisses equally. And that's when I knew I liked both sexes & started looking at boys and girls the same. My parents and siblings never asked. Never judged. My dad jokes about wanting me to settle down with a nice Jewish boy but always tells me that as long as I'm happy & they are good to me,he is good. I tell him & everyone who asks... I like who I like. I like the person. The way they make me feel. How they treat me. How they treat Kyler. I tend to think more masculine and very dominant (obviously) so its def a challenge when dating either. Most men say they don't, but end up having a hard time with it. Women will say "But you don't look gay". And most women, especially lesbians, have always questioned every one of my guy friends / girlfriends when it comes to romantic intentions. I have straight guy friends & girlfriends as well as gay guy friends and girlfriends. Just because I'm attracted to all parties, doesn't mean I'm interested or sleeping with any of them. That's the stigma that most "Bi" girls get. And it's fucking ridiculous & ignorant. Enough w/ the judgement. The name calling. The seclusion. It's hard enough to find connection & love so when you do,who cares what the gender is?!What the race is?!What people think ?! I love who I am, my sexuality & proud to be part of the LGBTQ family🏳️‍🌈❤️」10月12日 11時31分