ニーナ・メルセデスさんのインスタグラム写真 - (ニーナ・メルセデスInstagram)「🌺 Every time we judge another we reveal a part of ourselves we haven’t healed from. _ Examples - “Why is this guy’s social media more popular than mine? His photos look like a kid shot them.” (Translation: “I wish that my social media was as popular as his is, and I’m insecure about the fact that it isn’t.”) _ “This woman thinks that she’s all that because she is physically in shape and obviously happy ...disgusting.” (Translation: “I wish that I had as much discipline as she did, and by judging her as a villain, it makes me feel a little better about being unmotivated.”) _ I find that negative judgement on others lowers my frequency and vibe. I realize it’s not my place to judge anyone, God is the only one who can do that. Instead when I don’t understand something or someone I just step back in my mind and say “that’s their journey” I send them love and I keep moving. I only hold space for love in my heart. Judging others feels gross and the negative emotion attached to it takes up too much room. If I judge another I become the oppressor, I create hate in my spirit. If I did that daily I would be miserable and full of anger. _ I believe we all have a perspective on life and we all hold ourselves to a standard based on our life experience and teachings. Some people are stuck only knowing what their parents taught them. They never grew past that into new thoughts or a healthier new perspective based on this century. New or old perspective, understand not everyone will live up to your standard but who is to say your standard is the right one or the only one. Because someone doesn’t meet your standard that doesn’t give you the right to judge and say mean hearted things. _ I hope you live a life of happiness. I hope you learn to love yourself. I hope you heal all your broken parts so you can rid yourself of anger and sadness. I hope you never go into the world and hurt others based on judgement. I hope the next time you see someone happy, successful or in mid blessing you cheer for them. I hope you never project your insecurity in the form of hatred. I hope you learn to only speak words of love and kindness. We’re all on our own journey! ❤️」10月24日 19時01分