マット・マクゴリーさんのインスタグラム写真 - (マット・マクゴリーInstagram)「Repost from @givingthetalk - ““A kiss is not a contract, but it’s nice - it’s very very nice.” - #BretMcKenzie . Here’s a friendly reminder that consent is ongoing. This means you need to constantly check in with your partner(s) when being physically intimate to make sure they’re comfortable with each new activity that’s being introduced. Agreeing to kiss someone is just that - an agreement to kiss. It doesn’t mean you have agreed to anything more. Agreeing to kiss doesn’t imply consent for any other activities - if you want to do something else, just ask. . Consent is also revocable. This means that anyone can change their mind during an intimate or sexual act and decide they want to stop for any reason. Think something sounded fun and suddenly realize it doesn’t feel very good? Maybe something feels different than you expected and you want to stop? You can say stop at any time and your feelings should be respected immediately even if: 🚦 you’re in a committed relationship (including marriage) 🚦you’ve engaged in that activity before (even if you’ve enjoyed it before) 🚦it was your idea 🚦you might want to try that activity again tomorrow 🚦you love your partner 🚦you planned on doing that activity and thought you were excited about it . Intimacy should be pleasurable and the best way to ensure that all involved are experiencing pleasure is to communicate. We must reject the notion that it’s more romantic or sexy to be a mind reader. What’s sexier than having a partner so committed to your pleasure and comfort that they’ll make sure you’re happy? . 🎨 @iconeo . #givingthetalk #sexeducation #pleasure #pleasurematters #pleasureispowerful #sexpositiveparenting #knowNo #consent #boundaries #healthyrelationships #relationships #communication #respect #bodypositivity #consentissexy #enthusiasticconsent #sexualhealth #sexpositive #flightoftheconchords “」8月28日 4時02分