マット・マクゴリーのインスタグラム(mattmcgorry) - 8月20日 03時52分

We were not raised in a culture of consent, let alone enthusiastic consent (Google the term is you’re unfamiliar). Most of us were not raised learning to value body autonomy and most of us are woefully inept at talking about sex in a real nuanced way. As men, we have been taught that we should always be confident and be knowledgeable about sex...which often goes against how we can ever create a culture of consent and normalize it in our relationships. As a man, I will attest that using a model of enthusiastic consent as we approach new levels of physical intimacy can feel clunky at first, but only because we were never taught it and rarely ever hear about it. We need to have the courage to lean into our discomfort and feelings of vulnerability...it is the only way to create a world and relationships where we are truly honoring other people’s bodily autonomy. We must resist our conditioning and create a new way. Not to mention, being able to have conversations about our wants, needs, and boundaries and learning to honor other people’s, is essential to creating a world of equity and justice.
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Repost from @givingthetalk - “How do you ask for consent?
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Because at the end of the day, whomever you’re with should be excited and enthusiastic about saying Yes!
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Asking for consent isn’t unsexy and doesn’t have to be awkward. We simply need more examples that model this type of exchange and that demonstrate direct respectful communication in order to normalize it. Asking for consent can be flirtatious, sexy, funny, silly, kind, loving, not just formal and stilted. Find your own way to communicate your desires and to check in with your partner(s) about their comfort, desires and boundaries.
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📷 @givingthetalk
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#normalizeconsent #expectconsent #consentissexy #consentisrespectful #givingthetalk #allthetalks #sexed #sexeducation #sexualhealth #reproductivejustice #communication #healthyrelationships #consent #sexualhealth #pleasureispower “

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sschucker When I was a teacher, our leveled sex Ed program went all the way down to kinder where in one lesson they taught kids to speak up for themselves for any kind of touching they didn’t feel comfortable with (including hugs, whatever) AND if someone says to stop doing something, not to take it personally and respect their wishes. We also roll played conversations on how to respect others like “it bothers me and makes me uncomfortable when you hum while you work” “I understand and I will try to stop” eventually the implications when they were in middle grades went more directly to sex. I like to think the kids in my district are more empowered and more respectful of others than my generation because of it 💗

hers.is.beauty Yes. All the things. However far it goes. Yes. Cuddling and watching a good documentary. I am great. You? Snuggle up under the covers. Yes, it’s good. Great. Being considerate. Yes. Yes. Talk. No, that’s okay. Comfort, empathy, massages. Yes, like this. You can touch me anywhere. Yup. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Soft and slow. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. No. Anything and everything. Yes. Yes. ...about what? Both now and later. Consent. 🙌🏽♥️

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candyeyes143 By the same token, society needs to be accepting of women giving consent. Letting the person know what is acceptable touch and not. Women need to be empowered to be able to say they want, how they want it, and what feels good without any judgments or shame.

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