クリスティン・ベルのインスタグラム(kristenanniebell) - 8月14日 05時36分

Words I needed today.
Reposted from @glennondoyle
The above passage is from my book, Love Warrior.
Pain is often the receipt of love. It’s proof we paid the price. It’s holy, perfect, exactly right.
So let’s quit grabbing away each other’s pain and instead just say: I see your pain. Thank you for trusting me enough to share it with me. I’ll sit with you in it.
Love you.
G
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#LoveWarriorBook
Reposted from @glennondoyle

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sunnycartwright Just read this and thought you may appreciate it: It occurred to Pooh and Piglet that they hadn't heard from Eeyore for several days, so they put on their hats and coats and trotted across the Hundred Acre Wood to Eeyore's house. Inside the house was Eeyore. "Hello Eeyore," said Pooh. "Hello Pooh. Hello Piglet" said Eeyore, in a Glum sounding voice. "We just thought we'd check on you," said Piglet, "because we hadn't heard from you, and so we wanted to know if you were okay." Eeyore was silent for a moment. "Am I okay?" he asked, eventually. "Well, I don't know, to be honest. Are any of us really okay? That's what I ask myself. All I can tell you, Pooh and Piglet, is that right now I feel really rather Sad, and Alone, and Not Much Fun To Be Around At All. Which is why I haven't bothered you. Because you wouldn't want to waste your time hanging out with someone who is Sad, and Alone, and Not Much Fun To Be Around At All, would you now." Pooh looked and Piglet, and Piglet looked at Pooh, and they both sat down, one on either side of Eeyore in his stick house. Eeyore looked at them in surprise. "What are you doing?" "We're sitting here with you," said Pooh, "because we are your friends. And true friends don't care if someone is feeling Sad, or Alone, or Not Much Fun To Be Around At All. True friends are there for you anyway. And so here we are." "Oh," said Eeyore. "Oh." And the three of them sat there in silence, and while Pooh and Piglet said nothing at all; somehow, almost imperceptibly, Eeyore started to feel a very tiny little bit better. Because Pooh and Piglet were There. No more; no less. Author - AA Milne Illustration - EH Shepard

ajanibas Ah, I know this all too well. The one suffering in pain seeks help and comfort from the ones around them but only to feel they run away or don’t have a clue how to help (not everyone does), so instead of being there they flee leaving their loved one to suffer in silence. Many of us suffer in silence. In my experience, a roller coaster going on 9 years now, when I reach out in so many ways - in my writing, in my postings, in my story sharing; nobody reaches out. Nobody checks on me. I’m a combat veteran, I haven’t felt the relief of trauma, anxiety, or depression. I can’t remember what it feels like to feel loved. Genuinely. I can’t remember what it feels like to feel happy. Only sadness. I don’t have a very large support system to begin with. Alone, that’s all I feel. But if I could spend the rest of my life helping people feel better, I would. I wish for more inner peace for everyone, instead of the inner turmoil. Sending love and light to anyone who needs it. Thank you for sharing @kristenanniebell ❤️❤️❤️

lordhillary8 Pain is an emotion that needs to be felt so we can also feel that perfect sweetness of pure joy! The best thing a parent can do instead of protecting their babies from pain, is to teach them how to feel it and progress onward. The best thing a friend can do is to sit in the pain too until the one feeling it is ready to move forward, the best thing we can do is allow those waves of emotions completely knock us down as we get back up, we get stronger, as we get back up we learn who we are, as we get back up we decide what we allow others to do or say towards ourselves, as we get back up we can feel bravely! Be scared, feel pain but continue, move, grow, strengthen, and allow yourself to feel the joy too. It’ll be so deserved!

deadbroke70 @kristenanniebell , I agree with your comments. Many years ago I was one that new pain and tried to deal with it. I can say from personal experience, what you shared “ I see you pain. Thank you for trusting me enough to share it with me. I’ll sit with you in it” that is what those of us that are dealing with tragedy’s that as a result have caused A lot of pain needs. Someone to just be there with us, give encouraging words that uplifts us. Thanks for sharing.

zensearchlife Love it! It is so hard as a mother who grew up in codependency and denial. Have been doing a lot of healing traumas so I can be present and patient with my 8 year old daughter. I love this, thank you for trusting me and sharing, I will sit with you. I have found myself just sitting with her a lot lately and loving her, but not trying to solve her challenges or justify them. Want her to learn and feel, not deny and run. Which just leads back to codependency.

jcdrtimeless1 elsa you have a choice to follow Father God, son of God Jesus, and the Holy spirit or not our Father who art in Heaven hallowed be thy name thy kingdom come thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil amen

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