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mrstiara_everydaylife Damn...so sad, I believe in spanking but I think it went way too far...asking if she wanna be a hoe and then posting it to a public platform. I feel we confuse punishment and humiliation with each other. She shouldn't be having sex at 12 but I dont think an immediate beat down is right...you shouldn't spank your child while you're angry...it leads to this kind of shit...before spanking aka beating her did her dad ever sit down and talk to her about sex? Did he ever tell her his expectations for her? Has he talk to her about pregnancy, STDs and other things beforehand? We are so afraid to talk to our kids about this shit but as soon as they mess up we wanna beat the hell out of them and then post it on social media to further add to her humiliation. That wont fix anything, it will lead to her being very afraid of her dad, now she will hide, rebel and despise him. Could he have taught her a bigger and better lesson by making her review and write a report about STDs and teen pregnancy? Maybe he could've sat down and talked to the young mans parents, made her take a sex ed class..or if he gave her a spanking he should keep it off social media and have a purpose behind it.

allofmypurplelife In my opinion he should never have posted it but I can't imagine catching my 12 year old daughter having sex so...I'm not mad at him. The problem with spanking, and I was spanked, is the guilt that comes afterward. It's hard to reconcile that you were violent with your child, regardless of their behavior. I'm not against spanking and for some it works, but we should also consider whether we are doing our best as parents to have open conversations with our children so this doesn't happen. I met a woman who went off on me recently because she heard me discussing with another parent that we are talking to our kids about sex. She said she still hasn't had a convo with her 16 year old twin daughters because they're being raised right. SMDH lest these girls end up with an STD because mommy won't talk about it. ? The key is communication with your kids. Your kids need to want to come and talk to you about major life choices.

lololomored I got whooped and it made me sometimes think before I did something. but as I got older I realized there are better forms of discipline that could actually be more effective than spankings. I think the dad here went a little too overboard with that spanking. Why not make her do several reports on STD's so she is well informed of what could happen. How bout reaching out to role models who went thru being fast at an early age that can tell her or better yet show her what has happened to them. Better yet how bout you get her involved in extra activities so she dont have time to worry bout them lil boys and you may wanna advise her that she can make herself feel better than any boy or man could by getting to know herself first before she gives it away. Oh yeah lets not forget take her on dates and show her how a boy should respect her. ijs?

hizqueenie No social media but buss dat ass....sex at 12 ??? nah...I got spanked...survived...I knew not to play wit my elders because there would be a real consequence n not a conversation....in certain situations a conversation doesn’t quite cut it...nnnnn that was a moment he posted..who knows if the child been cuttin up...n he been talkin n punishing...maybe her screwing was the straw n he was over da bullshit ??‍♀️kids don’t come out with an instruction manual...each kid is an individual...where you can you can talk to some as discipline...there are some that you gotta snatch dat ass instead..n God bless the parents that nothing seems to work...but 12 year old daughter havin sex ??? that’s the accurate natural response of a lot fathers ??‍♀️

curiouslyrex Beating that child is not going to make her stop. He just created a whole list of new problems. Now she is going to be sneaky. She is going to do it in more risky places with other men around waiting their "turn." If she is molested or raped or pregnant, she won't tell him. Publicly embarrassing her will open her up for ridicule and bullying resulting in low self-esteem. Other girls may shun her because of her "reputation" and the last thing a low self-esteem girl needs is only male friends. The father should have punished her privately with long conversations about why he was disappointed and the risks and consequences of sex. If she felt closer to her dad, I guarantee her sexual activity would immediately decrease. A beating won't do that.

the_one_and_only_sima The issue is beyond using Corporal punishment. The child is only 12, Beating the child is an instant reaction to her actions. What the parent need to do is find a solution to the problem. Getting the child therapy to help understand her why she behaved that way. Is she exposed to sexual behaviors or activities ? What led her to feel that it’s okay to engage in such activity ? ... In addition to that, I wonder what the parent expected to gain by exposing his discipline methods on social media. That may have done more damage to the child than anything else. The language he is using while beating the child says a lot about his communication style towards the child. This story just has too many layers to it. The parent and child need help.

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