レイチェル・レフィブレのインスタグラム(rachellelefevre) - 12月11日 00時47分

“Everybody loses the thing that made them.” -Hushpuppy “Beasts of the Southern Wild”

Yesterday was the one year anniversary of my father’s death and today is the two month anniversary of my mother’s sudden passing. As my heart heals and as my thoughts continually drift back to them throughout these days I keep wondering what lesson there is in their both being gone. What can I share since losing both the people who made this curly-haired, spaghetti faced kid?
1) When you lose the way of love, fight your way back as hard as you can. 2) Honoring your parents doesn’t mean sacrificing your emotional health or happiness for them. 3) Ask your parents what they want when they die, when the time comes it’s better to know than not know. 4) Some part of you will always be your parents. 5) You are not your parents. 6) Our parents love us to the best of their abilities; some people’s abilities are vast, some very limited, that’s not your fault. 7) Never judge your own or someone else’s grief. 8) Reactions of love, sadness, anger, longing, relief, despair, confusion, peace- it’s ALL okay. 9) You are the keeper of a legacy if you want it. 10) The cycle ends with you if you want it to. 11) Even when it doesn’t feel like it, you’re strong enough, you can, you’re ready. ?

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