ニーナ・メルセデスのインスタグラム(lifewithmariza) - 10月2日 05時24分

??Have you recently heard a quote that really helped you? What was it? Comment below please ??
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? Over the weekend someone said to me ... “What you think of yourself says more about you than what others think of you” ? I have to say that really hit me. It made me question what do I think of myself. More importantly what do I BELIEVE about myself. I get laser focused on what others say and think about me when it’s negative and rarely hear the positive.
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Obviously the positive outweighs the negative but by nature I think we want everyone to like us. When they don’t we don’t understand why. We naturally want to be accepted and loved. I grew up with a lack of love and attention from my parents and as an adult I crave it. That’s who I am, I strive to be likeable but I fight with standing my ground on not changing to be liked.
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? Not everyone will like you. People will dislike you and not even know why. People will get mad with you, dislike you and tell everyone around you but never tell you. That’s the nature of people and it reflects their skills in communication not you.
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Insanity is believing that EVERYONE will like and agree with you. Learning to be okay with that is my internal struggle. Focusing on what I think of myself and what I believe about myself is my goal. Learning that if I just love myself then that is ENOUGH!
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Love and accept yourself first then spread that to everyone who is open to it. Never try and force others to want to be in your space. People grow and evolve maybe they’ll come around but regardless just accept there is a balance to the universe and some people will love you, some won’t but you are enough my love.
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