New York Times Fashionのインスタグラム(nytstyle) - 9月29日 23時33分

"If you want to have healthy relationships with other people, you need to develop a healthy one with yourself first, and that can’t come without you spending time on your own," said Chidera Eggerue @theslumflower, a British Nigerian blogger and author. "You literally need to be alone." The 23-year old's message is clear and needed: self-love. Last September she posted a picture of herself, using #saggyboobsmatter, wearing a deep-plunge yellow dress. Most recently, her first book, “What a Time to Be Alone,” published in July, is an antidote to traditional self-help books, which she says often speak only to “privileged people from the first world.” Her advice for a break-up? "Please do not try to impress him on social media. Don’t block him and then try extra hard to look cute because you know he will come looking at your account from another account. You are weaponizing yourself. What is most important is that you are occupied. You’ve got things going for you. Maybe you’ve got a new job; maybe you are meeting new friends, living a busy and full life." Read more of @theslumflower's advice, link in bio. Article by @ceylansnaps Photograph by @vickygrout

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