クラウディア・ジョーダンのインスタグラム(claudiajordan) - 5月6日 01時04分

As this trip winds down as we have less than 24 hours left on this ship-I’m getting excited to get back home to my life. It’s so beneficial to sometimes take a break from your routine to reflect & self evaluate. What can I be doing better? What should I be doing less of? What am I good at that I should be pursuing more? Is my loyalty & kindness being taken for granted? What’s the most important thing to me? Remembering my worth & what I bring to any table I sit at. I’m an over thinker AFTER the fact. And folks like me- will torture ourselves & blame ourselves & swallow so much pride just to make sure someone else’s ego feels good. It’s a flaw I really wanna work on because it’s self sacrificing & only hurts me. I don’t know- blame it on the multiple days at sea & being cut off from all my loved ones, cable news & the same ole same day to day routine but yeah- this was on my heart & mind to share with you guys for some reason & I find that whenever I just write from the heart there’s always someone in the comments that feels the exact same way & finds comfort in the post. So here it is. We- (especially women) are always so concerned about everyone else’s feelings & thoughts that we all too often sacrifice our own happiness & mental well being just to keep the peace. We’ll allow foul behavior & make excuses for folks like “well they didn’t have a father” or “he’s very stressed” or “she really didn’t mean that- she’s just a hot head” all the while we’re allowing behavior that really hurts our hearts & souls because we don’t just check the f*ck outta that nonsense right when it happens cause we were brought up to “be nice” & God forbid “don’t come off as an angry black woman!” So we take hit after hit after hit & disrespect & all kind of blame that shouldn’t even be ours. And when we DO finally stand up for ourselves here & there we get “why u trying to play the victim?” Wait what? Na ladies- find the balance between taking accountability when you ARE wrong & standing up for yourself when you simply are not. Throw fear of loss out the window & watch things fall right into place. The right folks will stick around & appreciate & respect the boundaries ??❤️?

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