ウィットニー・カミングスのインスタグラム(whitneycummings) - 7月21日 01時04分

Sometimes when I'm with King I find myself getting needy and clingy. Fear comes up that we never have enough time together and my perfectionism tells me we should be bonding harder and more perfectly. For him this translates to feeling pressure, which triggers me to desperately try and make him more comfortable. This transpires into a Chinese finger trap shit show of codependence, so I find the best thing I can do is stop trying to "fix" it, and just detach with love and walk away to regroup. After I figure out what's going on with me (usually just good ole fashioned fear and a chronic need for dopamine) I can come back and we can re engage in a mature way. King has taught me that love is not urgent, that intimacy has nothing to do with proximity, and that relationships should be interdependent, not codependent. Sometimes when we push too hard, we push the thing we want so badly away from us. Thanks boy for teaching me the difference between loving and smothering. ❤️#honestgram #regroup

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