マイラ・ダルブサイオのインスタグラム(myladalbesio) - 10月11日 23時45分

Feeling inspired by women like @ケリー・オックスフォード and @アンバー・タンブリン to share my own story of "pussy grabbing". It has happened in various ways throughout my life, but the incident that stands out the most to me is the time I lost my virginity. I was 17, and my boyfriend was around 23. I had convinced him to come to my homecoming dance with me (he had tried his hardest to avoid it). After the dance, we went to a friend's house, where I drank a whole bottle of whiskey. By myself. He stayed sober, so he could drive us home. My last memories of the night are chugging Jim Beam straight from the handle. I woke up the next morning naked in his bed, feeling achey and confused. A flash of memory came back to me, of laying in bed, grimacing while my rhinestone necklace bounced up and down on my chest. "Did we have sex last night?" I fought the urge to vomit as he admonished me for not remembering. "I thought you wanted it," he said. "I think I remember you telling me you wanted it to happen after the dance." Though we had had conversations in the past about when I would be ready to have sex, I had not said this (I specifically remember telling him that I thought the post-homecoming scenario was "cheesy", and it did not appeal to me). He hurried me out of his apartment, and I drove home feeling hurt and ashamed. Ashamed that I couldn't remember, that he was mad at me, but also a deeper, more challenging shame, that something was done to me, taken from me, without my consent. He broke up with me shortly after, telling me he "never really considered himself my boyfriend anyway." This may not seem like a traditional assault - it was my boyfriend, I would have gone home with him anyway, who knows what I said when I was that drunk. What I am sure about is this, though - no relatively sober man should be fucking a blackout drunk teenager, ever. I want to live in a world where men are taught to respect women, to care for them in situations like these rather than take advantage of them. I was troubled as a teenager, but while my reckless behavior certainly put me at a greater risk, it does not mean that I asked for or deserved this. #notokay #imwithher #dumptrump

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